This guy and i want to have sex&im not on birth con.i told him he has 2 wear a condom but he refuses2.he rather use a sandwich bag. help! i don't know what 2do?

Say No: Last i checked, a sandwich bag doesn't protect as well from pregnancy, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, hiv, hepatitis, etc. Those corners may hurt you as well. Best to use condoms since they've been designed for penises....Sandwich bags aren't... Keep protecting yourself & take care.

Think about it: I really agree with dr. Cano. The other part is that if you're not caring about yourself very much, you'll sell yourself short every time. You'll fear you won't be loved if you don't say "yes." he "refuses" to protect the both of you from std's & pregnancy, as if your needs aren't worthy of consideration. Is this the way you want to be treated? I really, really hope not. Take good care of you.