Maybe nervious is the wrong word he reach climax before i do is that normal is there something to help him last longer than 10min?

"Ladies first": When couples pose him similar questions about orgasm, an obgyn colleague of mine advises a "ladies first" approach. Men may experience fairly quick orgasms, especially in new relationships. It may help to pleasure the woman first, and then have intercourse to at least male orgasm. With this, the woman might climax again. It takes communication: what pleases, when orgasm is imminent, etc. Fun!

Many options: Distract by thinking nonsexual thoughts. "stop and start":  stop stimulation before ejaculation for 30 seconds and restart. Repeat as desired.  "squeeze" method: man or partner gently squeezes the end of penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds. Stop stimulation for 30 seconds, and restart . repeat as desired. Ssris such as prozac (fluoxetine). use condom/local anesthetic cream.