How come i have pain during sex?

Infection vs tissues: Since you are older i would assume you've had the standard pelvic pain workup. If your doc are still guessing then you need to shift gears and began a wellness program, vits, magnesium glycinate, sleep hygiene, exercise, self massage, chiropractor, yoga, heat, epsom tub soaking, and stretching. Think flesh=muscles/tissue and not organs with chronic pain.

See below: Dyspareunia can be a big problem for some women. The website below is a good reference. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/painful-intercourse/ds01044.