I have huge labia flaps that hang down about 5cm, maybe more. i am only 14 so i cannot go to the doctors myself and i am too embarrassed to tell my mu?

Problem vs aesthetic: At 14 your whole body is still developing. There are some self image issues and in reality there is no good baseline standard to define normal. It varies by race and culture. You need to talk to your mom so she can orient you. If you are not physically bothered by the size of the labia you can wait and see. But if you are physically bothered, catching with the underwear, bothersome sitting get eva