Had an unsafe encounter over ten years ago. took 3 oraquick tests a week ago and all three negative are they reliable after that long. ?

Yes. You're healthy.: Be thankful for good health. You're young, you're smart enough to have found health-tap, and you don't have HIV. You had an "unsafe encounter" -- but you gave and received love, imperfect as human love always is. My hope for you is that you will cherish everything that was positive about this time long ago, and love both wisely and well in a happier future.