Me & my bf always use a condom and he ejaculates outside of me away from me. we always check for holes and leaks. i'm 4 days late for my period help!?

Pregnancy test: Even with perfect use condoms do have a failure rate. To know if this is one of those check a pregnancy test. Condoms beat anything other than abstaining for decreasing the risk of STDs and they do work better when used with spermacides but if you don't want a pregnancy you need a more reliable method. Good luck.

Pregnant?: Although there are many potential reasons why you may have missed a period (this is not uncommon), would suggest that you go to the pharmacy and get a home pregnancy test kit and check a first morning voided urine. Good luck.

Pregnancy test?: Perhaps your strategy hasn't worked. To be sure, please get a pregnancy test.

Take pregnancy test.: Reasons for missed/late periods: low body weight, obesity, marked weight ^ or v, over-exercise, endurance athletics, breast-feeding, ^ stress, illness, eating disorders (bulimia or anorexia), anovulatory cycle (no egg released), travel, hormone irregularities, drug use, meds (i.e., birth control) or medical problems (i.e. PCOS). #1 reason is pregnancy.