Can woman lose her hymen or teared by fingering? what is the signs of teared hymen? could virgin woman squirt?

Not all have one: Hymens are not the same in all females. They can be anywhere from large and thick to tiny and thin. Tiny thin ones may not be affected at all by a virgin's first intercourse. This has been a problem for such women through history in cultures that insist on PROOF of female chastity. Hopefully, you behave so that you can trust a woman whom you love. Squirting is not a controlled event either. Trust!