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How do i tell my boyfriend it hurts after he fingers me dry?

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Dr. Andrew Oswari answered

Specializes in Family Medicine

Just tell him: If he has a heart he will listen to you. Ask for more foreplay or use lubricant.

Dr Fowler and another doctor agreed

Answered 10/9/2017

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