A member asked:

My boyfriend can only be erect if we have rough sex. it's extremely painful and i've only just lost my virginity. how can he be gentler?

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Dr. Elvia Greathouse answered

Specializes in Obstetrics and Gynecology

Complicated: Sex is a very complicated topic and is difficult to address with just a few sentences. If your boyfriend can ONLY achieve erection with rough sex, I would consider that their is a psychological component to this that needs to be addressed (although doubtful he will want to do this). Rough sex is fun sometimes, but not EVERY time for ANYONE. You need to be more open about what YOU want.

Answered 9/11/2014

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