During sex, i can't orgasm. in some positions it feels as if i have to go to the restroom. i don't know what's wrong. ?

Sex positions: Our bladder and vaginal lie close to each other, and in certain sexual positions the bladder can be stimulated and it will make you feel like you have to urinate. Some positions are better for females to have orgasm than others.

Exam needed: A full exam by your doctor is recommended. However it sounds like sexual intercourse is pushing or irritating your bladder. If this is a new issue and you have not had pain during intercourse before a thorough history exam with your doctor will help determine what is causing your ailment.

Terrible Secret: One of the most terrible secrets women keep from each other is that many women do not orgasm during intercourse unless there is clitoral stimulation during the event. Many women teach their partners to spend time attending to this clitoris during intercourse or add this themselves so that their participation in the event is mutually beneficial. Penetration alone often does not simulate the spot.