How to not be so stressed at work? i am stuck in a career i hate and do not belong. it is not my dream job. i am miserable not doing something i enjoy

Napoleon Hill: Back in the 1930's Napoleon Hill wrote a classic called "Think and Grow Rich". It is a little dated, but it has great advice. If you are stuck in a job without possibilities, it is the book for you.

Start preparing: How long it will take to prepare for work you'd like depends on many variables - but whatever they are - the answer is the same. Start! The career climate is not great, but that's just another variable. So, Start! If it's too confusing, starting starts w/ a job counselor. The good news that this may keep you so busy, you won't mind the job as much. Keep your eye on the goal and move toward it.