Clitirous swollen after sex, no pain though how long should it be like that? use latex condom, im also allergic to latex

Risky: It is very risky to be using latex condoms if you are latex sensitive. Your heavy breathing next time may not be pleasure, but inability to catch your breath due to allergic reaction. Likely why your clitoris is swollen. Reaction can be immediate or days delayed. There are latex free condoms, and I suggest you invest in these. Take some Benadryl (diphenhydramine) and see if that helps the swelling of the clitoris.