First night wife breasts so soft. she told becoz she doesn't wear bra.can they be soft?penis went easily no pain for her.is she a virgin?

Yes, very likely,: Some 80% of females feel little ache or no pain at all at their first intercourse although traditionally coital pain and bleeding at female's first intercourse have been vividly described, but tended to be over-exggerated and even "over-celebrated". So, move on if you love her and both have enjoyed your highest personal intimacy. Breast softness is real and be respectful toward it. Best wish ...