Can you tell me how i could stop the disrespect from my husband?

Safety first: What you need to do first is read about the cycle of domestic violence. If he has hit or threatened you, you need to decide whether you are in danger, and if so, make a plan to you and any children out. This is extremely dangerous. Otherwise... A good couples counselor may be able to help, and there are skills you can learn even if you're in the right that may make your marriage much better.