How to interpret my boyfriends condition aspergers?

Understanding AS: Overall, people with AS are capable of functioning in everyday life, but tend to be somewhat socially immature, relate better to adults than peers, and may be seen by others as odd or eccentric. Other characteristics of AS may include clumsiness, limited interests, and peculiar preoccupations. Adults with AS have trouble demonstrating empathy for others.

Don't interpret: Your task is to love each other, not understand each other. Especially, folks with Asperger's have trouble reading your moods and body language, and he is incomprehensible. Don't try to change each other; enjoy each other, talk about any issues up front to defuse misunderstandings; he's not like that just to be nasty, and he's had it extra-rough because of how he naturally is. Best wishes 2u both.