What do you suggest if i have borderline personality disorder?

It is hard: Personality disorders are difficult to live with and hard to treat. Usually if u have a personality disorder u do not realize that u have a problem, people close to u do. If u have been told u have one and are asking for help that is a major step. Follow through and speak to a therapist. They will start with what's bothering u, which is your healthier side and move on from there. It will take time.

DBT: If you have been diagnosed with borderline Personality Disorder by a mental health professional discuss getting setup with a professional, if not them-self, who specializes in Dialetical Behavioral Therapy, a treatment for BPD.