What are some alternative contraceptives to condoms and the pill. my girlfriend just wants me to pull out :/ too risky imo?

You're smart: Consider having her get an intrauterine device. She also needs to know that despite all the scare stuff she may have read about the oral contraceptive pill, it offers several health advantages besides birth control, if she's on the right preparation for her. And perhaps you can find a variety of condom that you both like.

IUD/diapragm/cer.cap: As Dr. Friedlander mentioned, an IUD is a good alternative, but other effective alternatives include diaphragms and cervical caps. She can ask her gynecologist, family doctor or planned parenthood about these. Pulling out is very risky with a high failure rate.