How do i make amends with someone?

Mail a card: With a hand written note acknowledging that you have hurt this person. Let them know that you are sorry and ask them to please forgive you. Whether or not they can will depend on your sincerity, the nature of your transgression and their capacity for forgiveness. Good luck.

A variation of: The recommendation by dr. Schneider is to express your apology in person. Sometimes i apologize to someone even if i never had any intent to make them feel bad. Why? Because whether my intent or not - they were hurt. You will usually feel better after making an appropriate apology. Remember that just because you apologize doesn't mean that the other person will necessarily forgive you. Take care.