I need help my marriage is on the line, i need help with a tubal ligation reversal my mother messed this up for me.

Reflection….: Regret is the #1 complication of sterilization, especially in young women. Ultimately this is your issue, not your mother's…you had to give permission to occlude the tubes, not your mother. Take responsibility for it. If your "marriage is on the line" over this issue, i would encourage counseling. There are obviously many deeper issues at play.