Can i tell me how i can tell if i were molested?

It may come clear: Even more important than a "yes" or "no", may be finding a way to have a well adjusted present and future. Whatever happened in the past, it included something that hurt you, perhaps badly. Hopefully, that is all over now. Sometimes it really might be useful to know the details, but often it is not. There are caring therapists who can help you handle this and to decide on best tx. Best wishes.