A 49-year-old female asked:
daughter 5, does not know her father and i are separated, she thinks her father works overseas, he visits her every 2mnths...how do i tell her & when?
3 doctor answers • 5 doctors weighed in
Dentistry 20 years experience
She will ask: Let her ask and then you tell her that your situation is different to others. She will understand.
Obstetrics and Gynecology 24 years experience
Now?: Kids are more resilient then you think and they appreciate the truth. I don't know why not telling her from the beginning but then I am not a psychiatrist, just a parent and doctor. As long as you tell her it is not because of her and keeping it a secret may make her feel that way later it would probably be okay to tell her daddy lives somewhere else and therefor can't see her more often.
Family Medicine 25 years experience
Who's my dad: It is important that you sit with your daughter and explain to her who her father is and that he loves her very much. Especially if he visits her regularly. Ask him to try to write to her or call her more frequently to keep their relationship healthy. It is important to stress that her father and you not being together is not her fault and that you both love her very much. Kids can handle alot.
North Las Vegas, NV
A 35-year-old male asked:
Me and my daughters mother broke up 5 yrs ago due to her cheating its been over 5 yrs and I am completely obsessed with everything she does ! why?
2 doctor answers • 4 doctors weighed in
Psychiatry 42 years experience
Many reasons: This is a good question, but one which you know the answer to (even if you don't think you do.) it may help to work with a therapist on this, so that you can gradually move towards the answers you're seeking. Also this will help do what you need to, to free yourself of these obsessions. You'll always be linked by having your daughter together, but you need resolution for your own life.
A 33-year-old female asked:
My daughter gets so jealous and crys when i wear new clothes or even go out with her father ina special occasion eventhough i get all what she wants?
2 doctor answers • 3 doctors weighed in
Cardiology 51 years experience
Merits evaluation.: A psychiatric or psychological evaluation by a professional should be able to clarify why this occurs.
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