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My husband insists on anal sex at least once a month but i find it very painful is it safe and there anyway to make it less painful

A 31-year-old female asked:
Dr. Sidney Vinson
26 years experience Gastroenterology
See below: Anal intercourse is generally safe but if it hurts...You shouldn't do it!
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A 43-year-old female asked:
Dr. Janice Alexander
41 years experience Obstetrics and Gynecology
Not recommended: Anal sex can disrupt your anal sphincter and is generally not recommended by gynecologists. Is there a reason why you would not use your vagina? Inte ... Read More
A 35-year-old female asked:
Dr. John Tillett
21 years experience Urology
See below: You should only do what you feel totally comfortable doing. You and your husband should have open communication about your sex life, but neither part ... Read More
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A 36-year-old member asked:
Dr. Slade Suchecki
17 years experience Family Medicine
Not Recommended: If you have internal hemorrhoids, i would recommend against anal intercourse as this can exacerbate the issue whether lubricated or not. If they are ... Read More
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A 22-year-old female asked:
Dr. Robert Kwok
32 years experience Pediatrics
Doctor can examine: Anuses are not designed for in-out, in-out sex. Just like in a big city, some streets are one-way and some streets are two-way. A vagina is created or ... Read More
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A 28-year-old male asked:
Dr. M. Hytham Beck
42 years experience General Surgery
See another: First, use OTC medication as if you have a hemorrhoid. What you have is most likely a fissure, which is a tear. You need to be examined by a colorecta ... Read More
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A 30-year-old male asked:
Dr. Tracy Berg
31 years experience General Surgery
Ask your surgeon: The tear may be related to trauma, constipation, and scarring. Best to talk with your doctors who treated your anal tear. They know your case best and ... Read More
A 54-year-old member asked:
Dr. Eric Kaplan
41 years experience Colon and Rectal Surgery
You: Are 47 yo and have never had anal sex. Why start it now? Risks are infection, irritation, and damage to the sphincter muscles. None of this is worth t ... Read More
A 47-year-old member asked:
Dr. Eric Kaplan
41 years experience Colon and Rectal Surgery
Best thing: Is to avoid it! if you must partake, a cleansing enema, plenty of lubrication, protection with condom and a very patient and gentle partner. A very hi ... Read More
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A 56-year-old member asked:
Dr. Eric Kaplan
41 years experience Colon and Rectal Surgery
You: Are 49 yo and have never had anal sex. Why start it now? Risks are infection, irritation, and damage to the sphincter muscles. None of this is worth t ... Read More

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