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I'm 49 and have never been able to have orgasm in sex. Fsd?
11 doctors weighed in

Dr. Thomas Namey
Internal Medicine - Rheumatology
7 doctors agree
In brief: Unusual
Several causes come to mind: low testosterone in a woman, elevated prolactin levels, etc.
But can you give yourself an orgasm? This is important, then you should know what you like, in terms of stimulation, and relay that to your partner. Many women are hesitant to tell their partner what they enjoy!

In brief: Unusual
Several causes come to mind: low testosterone in a woman, elevated prolactin levels, etc.
But can you give yourself an orgasm? This is important, then you should know what you like, in terms of stimulation, and relay that to your partner. Many women are hesitant to tell their partner what they enjoy!
Dr. Thomas Namey
Dr. Thomas Namey
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Dr. Michael Sinclair
Family Medicine
1 doctor agrees
In brief: Primary Anorgasmia
Primary anorgasmia, (never had an orgasm) is pretty common among women.
It can be fixed most of the time. You need someone who is comfortable talking to you about things such as self stimulation, ususally a sex therapist. You also need a physical exam to make sure you are normal, ie no hooded clitoris, normal vagina, etc. Start by calling your family doctor.

In brief: Primary Anorgasmia
Primary anorgasmia, (never had an orgasm) is pretty common among women.
It can be fixed most of the time. You need someone who is comfortable talking to you about things such as self stimulation, ususally a sex therapist. You also need a physical exam to make sure you are normal, ie no hooded clitoris, normal vagina, etc. Start by calling your family doctor.
Dr. Michael Sinclair
Dr. Michael Sinclair
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Dr. George Klauber
Pediatrics - Urology
1 doctor agrees
In brief: Very unfortunate
Some women go thru life without ever the experience of an orgasm.
Famous female sex educator betty dodson recommends using the hitachi magic wand. It is a gentle vibrator and has helped scores of women to achieve orgasm. Available at walmart, target, kmart etc.

In brief: Very unfortunate
Some women go thru life without ever the experience of an orgasm.
Famous female sex educator betty dodson recommends using the hitachi magic wand. It is a gentle vibrator and has helped scores of women to achieve orgasm. Available at walmart, target, kmart etc.
Dr. George Klauber
Dr. George Klauber
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Dr. Alvin Lin
Family Medicine
1 doctor agrees
In brief: If it bothers you
Fsd or female sexual disorder/dysfunction can only be diagnosed in women who are distressed by 1) lack of desire 2) inability to attain or maintain arousal 3) difficulty, delay or absence of orgasm and/or 4) pain associated w/sexual activity.
In other words, you might have all 4 but if you're bothered by it, then you don't have fsd.

In brief: If it bothers you
Fsd or female sexual disorder/dysfunction can only be diagnosed in women who are distressed by 1) lack of desire 2) inability to attain or maintain arousal 3) difficulty, delay or absence of orgasm and/or 4) pain associated w/sexual activity.
In other words, you might have all 4 but if you're bothered by it, then you don't have fsd.
Dr. Alvin Lin
Dr. Alvin Lin
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Dr. Alvin Lin
Sorry, poor editing: ". . . if you're NOT bothered by it . . ."
Dr. Michael Sinclair
Family Medicine
In brief: Primary Anorgasmia
Primary anorgasmia, (never had an orgasm) is pretty common among women.
It can be fixed most of the time. You need someone who is comfortable talking to you about things such as self stimulation, ususally a sex therapist. You also need a physical exam to make sure you are normal, ie no hooded clitoris, normal vagina, etc. Start by calling your family doctor.

In brief: Primary Anorgasmia
Primary anorgasmia, (never had an orgasm) is pretty common among women.
It can be fixed most of the time. You need someone who is comfortable talking to you about things such as self stimulation, ususally a sex therapist. You also need a physical exam to make sure you are normal, ie no hooded clitoris, normal vagina, etc. Start by calling your family doctor.
Dr. Michael Sinclair
Dr. Michael Sinclair
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Dr. Michael Sinclair
Family Medicine
In brief: Primary Anorgasmia
Primary anorgasmia, (never had an orgasm) is pretty common among women.
It can be fixed most of the time. You need someone who is comfortable talking to you about things such as self stimulation, ususally a sex therapist. You also need a physical exam to make sure you are normal, ie no hooded clitoris, normal vagina, etc. Start by calling your family doctor.

In brief: Primary Anorgasmia
Primary anorgasmia, (never had an orgasm) is pretty common among women.
It can be fixed most of the time. You need someone who is comfortable talking to you about things such as self stimulation, ususally a sex therapist. You also need a physical exam to make sure you are normal, ie no hooded clitoris, normal vagina, etc. Start by calling your family doctor.
Dr. Michael Sinclair
Dr. Michael Sinclair
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