Please someone tell me some severe steps to control masturbating urge. please?

Severe?: Forgive my frankness. You need to talk with somebody sensible. Teen / adult sexuality is powerful, and this is your most convenient way to stay focused and comfortable in a world where life is already difficult. I've seen young men ruin themselves emotionally after being told that it's "unspiritual" or must be controlled. It's a cruel way to try to manipulate a young person. Embrace who you are.