Is there any way to increase sexual simulation? i have sex but never orgasm. is there medication to make me more sensitive?

Female Sexuality: It is not unusual for a female to complain of not getting to orgasm with intercourse. Many women have to get to a point where they take responsibility for their own orgasm by manipulating the clitoris during sex or teaching their partners to do the same. I like two books: "our bodies our selves" a mantra for female sexuality and "the joy of sex" as a guide to teach about common sexual activities.