I have slight irritation on the head of my penis, with no redness, and i have also found a small bump on the head that has two small brown dots on it, dont know if i should be concerned or not ? fyi i am a virgin

Depends on details: For bumps on the penis, a primary care doctor, a urologist, or a dermatologist can evaluate to see what they might be. Bumps can be trapped skin cells, trapped oily secretions, normal features, warts from HPV, etc... A close examination should be able to tell if there is a problem or not. A video consultation might not show enough detail to get a diagnosis. An in-person exam works best.