My bf said he didnt ejaculate in me during sex but minutes after i cleaned up i started draining fluid, could it have just been my excess discharge?

Ejaculate ?: It is probable that ejaculation occurred at least to some extent, and combined with normal lubrication from sexual activity in the female partner, fluid discharge will occur. Pre-ejaculation without the sensation of a sexual "climax" can occur in young males, but this emission also can contain active sperm, so check for pregnancy if your cycle is delayed.