Is it normal to have your rip hymen to stick out of the vagina after losing your virginity?

Uh, no . . .: While it's possible for "ripped" tissue to stick out of your vagina, that would suggest tremendous trauma/injury. Best to seek medical evaluation to determine what's going on. Go see your FamilyDoc, GYN or Planned Parenthood. Local city/county health clinics can also provide assistance, too. Better to find out what's going on than to guess & wonder. Plus you'll probably need testing for STDs/STIs.