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A member asked:

My boyfriend gets hard easly but after a while if we want him hard so we can have sex his erection goes away to fast and we can't get into me?

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Questions: Has he always been this way? Has he had this reaction with any other women? Have you had sex with each other yet? If not, perhaps he is worried/afraid and that is why he is losing his erection.

Dr Boelter agreed

Answered 7/9/2015

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