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Why can't i orgasm? it's not like i'm not enjoying it because i love my boyfriend so much i don't know why i can't.

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Dr. Michael Finkelstein answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

It takes time: Relax and enjoy the moment. You may also try maasturbation to orgasm as a way to figure how to tell your boyfriend how to help you climax

Answered 9/28/2015

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