55 female had sex first time in 10 mts my part had blood on the head of his penis - he said it was my blood - he is well endouled first time sex ?

Bleeding after sex: It is likely that the blood noted was from the female unless he is uncircumcised. Trauma to the foreskin of an uncircumcised male can also cause bleeding. Needless to say, using a condom is always a good idea.

Friable cervix: Please use this question as a reason to get to your gynecologist urgently. Any post menopausal bleeding is a significant concern. Cancer has to be high on the list. STD and other infections would be next on the list.