Why is life such a cold, crewl, unforgiving place?

Sorry : Sorry that you are having a tough time. There are people available to speak to that may help you see life in a more positive light.

It is: Life is a challenge and as we all find out it is not always fair. Sometimes we can control our lives and often we just cannot. We can only try to make the best of what we have. When one door is closed to us, we have to make the best of the doors that are open.

Speak with someone: It is important for you to speak with a friend, family member, religious figure, or healthcare professional. They can help one sort through tough questions.

Life: Life is precious because of the people living it. We are all transient visitors. What you make out of life is up to you. It would be important to seek help from a counselor if you are having problems coping. We can all make life better by helping each other. There are always better days. It is all up to you.

Good question: We don't know why life is the way it is. However, our attitude makes a big difference on how we interpret life. It's like that glib saying, when life hands you lemonades, make lemonade. If you find life cold, cruel & unforgiving, talk to your friends, family, religious leaders, counselors, family physician, etc. You're not alone. If you're depressed, talk therapy +/- medications does wonders.

Sad view of life: There are as many views of life as individuals in the world. You are seeing life as a cold and unforgiving place, and most likely, you have many reasons for that. Psychiatrists are trained in assessing those elements which determine your views in life. If you suffer of depression or chronic illness, we may help you in overcoming it. Life could be a warm and lovely place if you want it.