Why do i get so upset when my boyfriend masturbates? i know it's normal and all, i even do it. but when he does it i feel cheated on. y do i get upset

Masturbation.: Does he masturbate in front of you? If he does, ask him not to if it bothers you. Does he tell you about his masturbatory behaviors? If so, once again you can ask him not to if it is upsetting. . Other then that, he does have the right to determine if he will or will not masturbate. So, you will likely need to find a way to deal with it. Take care.

Not clear: We all review sexual activities differently. You become upset when he masturbates probably because of how you view masturbation. Maybe you speak with him about how you feel. I am sure he is not trying to make you uncomfortable.