What are the symptoms of domestic violence i should be looking for?

Not sure: What you mean. Are you concerned about your relationship or someone else's. In general, domestic violence relates to a need to have control in a relationship. You may be able to pick up on that need to control long before you can see evidence of violence.

Very Important: First you must look deep inside yourself and decide whether or not you feel safe. Are you being hit or pushed or shoved? Are you being verbally degraded or called names or being put down? Domestic violence is very common and a difficult situation to leave. Often, the victim is used to being victimized and so feel they deserve the abuse. The victim often fears leaving due to finances or more abuse.