A member asked:

I have memories of being molested when i was 7 or 8. i feel like it has ruined who i am. what can i do?

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Dr. Barbara Lavi answered

Specializes in Clinical Psychology

The process : The process of recovery from sexual abuse is slow, but you can do it. Find a therapist who specializes in abuse. It will take time to trust anyone, but they will help you. The book the courage to heal can help too. When you are ready, a support group for survivors will help as well. Basically, you were hurt by the experiences, but your are not to blame and deserve to have a whole fulfilling life.

Answered 7/30/2014

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Move on: A good therapist will encourage you to move on. Popular books that encourage you to hate and to seek revenge will only make you sicker. Quality friends, hard work at a career and sustaining real relationships, and good hobbies and fitness activities can give you a life that's better than most other folks.

Answered 3/30/2014

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