Tips to get pregnant if he's ejaculating outside my vagina?

Have intercourse: I'm not sure what exactly you're trying to do or asking. If you're trying to get pregnant, he should really be ejaculating inside you. Everything else is unlikely to work easily if at all.

How to get Pregnant?: To get pregnant a female has to be exposed to fresh semen when she is ovulating. There is no possibility to get pregnant if there is no semen inside of the vagina. Now, at 34 this question comes as a surprise. Perhaps it may be wise to take a few minutes to remind yourself of the basics of fertility and ovulation and sexual activity. There is a power that comes from knowledge.