I really, really don't want to be pregnant or give birth, but my husband wants kids. i simply have no desire to do it. what should i do?

Get counselling: Rather than let the issue slowly eat away at your relationship, consider couples therapy. A third party can often help you get past the initial feelings you both have and see what common ground you can find.Adoption, finding someone to carry a pregnancy with your egg fertilized by dad, other scenarios, all could have merit and accommodate your differences.