Can being in a very emotionally abusive relationship cause random anxiety and cause pains have never had before?

Anxiety=Ur Protector: You're asking this question but i wonder if you don't already know the answer. (emotionally abusive relationships can cause you to start questioning your own judgment & gut feelings.) anxiety arises when we sense we're in danger - emotional or physical. It can take on physical forms (e.g., headaches, nausea, stomachaches, muscle tension, etc.). Info from womenshealth.Gov: http://1.Usa.Gov/17gun0g.

Abusive Relationship: Absolutely. Abusive relationships can affect you emotionally, physically and spiritually. You can damage your sense of self as your dignity is being robbed and when you allow abuse your self criticism can accentuate. Seek help as you do not deserve to be treated poorly. Psychotherapy is likely to help you. Best wishes.