Nits hard 4 me 2 to forgive people and i get fedup quick. what should i do to change?

See a therapist: See a good therapist. These types of problems are usually deep-seated and take time to work through. Taking the time to work on this can help you have more healthy relationships in the future.

Self-study: I've been guilty of the same kind of thinking and behavior. All of us need forgiveness ourselves at one time or another, and you can reflect on these times in your own life. You don't know what's really going on with anyone, and if you talk things out when you make peace with someone, you may be surprised at the burdens others are carrying. Few people are consciously trying to be difficult.