I am having trouble having a orgasm during sex?

A few possibilities : Have you ever been able to have an orgasm during sex? Some women (some say the majority) can't have an orgasm during sex because they are not able to get the clitoral stimulation that they need. It could also be that you need to be patient and try different things. How is your relationship with your partner? Possibly there are emotional issues that need to be addressed. Best wishes.