Every time when she coughs or sneezes she wets her self?

Stress incontinence: How many children have you had? The more the children the greater the chance of this. This results from a laxity of the tissues around the urethra (the pee hole) from having children it can also occur without having kids but is less common. See a urologist and they ca. Try medication or do surgery to togjten the tissues good luck!