I hit my middle toe really hard and it all went all bruised of course and swollen, but 3+ days had past the bruising is gone but the swelling is still really bad or even worse and and its really sore. sure i go to the hospital? or wait it out?

See regular doctor : No need for hospital or ED, as first step is simple X-ray and then decide next steps with regular doctor

Proper alignment : If you are only three days after injury go straight to x-ray and see a podiatrist or family doctor right away. ED is not necessary. If it’s broken it’s still can be positioned in a proper alignment if needed. If you wait any longer then surgical intervention might be required to align the toe.