Would u recommend taking apetamin when being a house wife and looking after a 6 month old and 3year old?

Not necessarily: This is a combination of an antihistamine known to stimulate appetite & some amino acids. If you believe the hype from advertising it may have some positive placebo effects, but as far as recommending you spend money on the product I can't. Trying your best to have a balanced diet & get effective sleep are your best aids. Talking the spouse into doing more is also a good idea.