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Am in a long distance relationship with my bf of 2yrs but am having sex with other guy. does that mean i stopped loving him? am so confused pls help

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Dr. Bernard Seif answered

Specializes in Clinical Psychology

Communication: Please be honest w/your long distance BF. As you communicate, which may be painful, your confusion may clear. Consider seeing a clinical psychologist to help your sort out your feelings and values at this stage in your life. Peace and good health.

Answered 12/4/2016

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Only you can decide: Love is complex.What you are doing does not give the answer, just a symptom. Would you accept the same behavior from him? Do you suspect it ? Do you realize you can love more than one person?Is your current situation more lust than love?The net is a resource but not the one that can answer this.An unrelated third party counselor (not your inner circle) can help you sort this out.

Answered 12/7/2016

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