I have a lump or bump outside of my vagina for almost 3 months, it doesnt hurt or grow bigger. how can i get rid of it?

Surgery: What you described suggests a Bartholin Cyst. Your doctor can remove. Do not try to pop it. For good health - Have a diet rich in fresh vegetables, fruits, whole grains, milk and milk products, nuts, beans, legumes, lentils and small amounts of lean meats. Avoid saturated fats. Drink enough water daily, so that your urine is mostly colorless. Exercise at least 150 minutes/week and increase the intensity of exercise gradually. Do not use tobacco, alcohol, weed or street drugs in any form. Practice safe sex.