How to get access to abortion pills? (under age, 17) can a male adult get it for me and where?

Not sure, but...: You should consider a consultation at Planned Parenthood. They deal with your situation routinely and will be able to give you solid free advice on the choices available to you to manage your dilemma. As hard as it may be to do, you should also try to involve whatever family members you can, if possible. It won't be easy, but nothing about your situation is easy right now. Good luck.