Do you have any tips on trying to conceive for the 1st time?

Yes: Moat women ovulate approximately 14 days from the length of their cycle. So, if you are having a 30 day cycle, you are ovulating around day 16, a 28 day cycle, day 14, a 32 day cycle, day 18 and so on. Be patient, only 25% of couples get pregnant on their first attempt, 30% by the end of 3 attempts, 60% at 6 months, 80% at 9 mos and 85% at a year. The remaining 15% are infertile by definition.