Is there anything i can do to increase my fertility? what are some things that might be lessening my chances of becoming pregnant?

Gain knowledge: Understanding the fertility process is an important place to start. For example, understanding that up to 50% of infertility can be due to the male can lessen some of the concern for women, also, understanding your ovulatory cycle is important. It is at this time that you are most likely to conceive. Finally, try not to become overly anxious about it--that stress can actually have an impact.