I have been sexually active , and it hurts to uranate it was my first time , and i tried going to the rest room and it burned badly.

There : There could have been friction against the urethra (pee hole) which caused inflammation. Urinating may cause more pain. You might also have a urinary tract infection. I see a tag for "abnormal vaginal discharge", although this wasn't mentioned. If you have an abormal discharge and it consistently hurts to urinate, recommend that you contact your doctor.