Help needed. i have developed fecal incontinence, i cannot control it when i have to go?

You need investigati: In 37 yr old fecal incontinence is not normal . You need to see your doctor physical exam, blood test for diabetes etc, will refer you for specialist for endoscopy, anorectal conduction studies, then you will have answers for treatment

Consider PT: There are some non-surgical ways to improve incontinence. Adding fiber and even Imodium (loperamide) may make the stools firmer, making incontinence less likely. Also consider physical therapy for pelvic floor weakness. Unsupervised kegel exercises are often not very effective. We now have several surgical options, including interstim, solesta, and secca. A colon and rectal surgeon can help you with this.

Stop caffiene : Some urogynecologist also treat this condition.

Colorectal surgeon: Many tests including defacography and anorectal manometry can be performed or ordered by a colorectal surgeon. See one with experience in fecal incontinence for a consultation.

See your doctor: There are many causes for fecal incontinence and you need to see your doctor to help determine the cause. They may refer you to a gastroenterologist or a general surgeon depending upon your specific symptoms.

See a doctor: Is it occurring with loose stool? You can try to add fiber to diet. But if this is new change in your bowel habits then you should follow up with a doctor. There are many conditions that could cause this from neurologic, sphincter tears, infections,growths. See a primary practioner, gastroenterologist, or colorectal surgeon. A physician can ask more questions and perform tests to evaluate